Passover is a special time filled with meaning, memory, and tradition. But if you’ve ever found yourself unsure about what to say during Passover, you’re not alone. Whether you’re attending a Seder for the first time or just want to speak with care and respect, the words you choose matter.
In the first 100 words, we’ll explore what to say during Passover to honor the holiday, connect with others, and share the spirit of freedom. This guide offers easy ways to speak kindly, ask thoughtful questions, and express yourself with warmth and respect during this important time.
So whether you’re Jewish or not, knowing the right words to say during Passover can help you feel confident and connected—and bring a smile to someone’s face. Let’s explore how.
1. Start with “Chag Sameach” or “Happy Passover”
A simple greeting goes a long way. If you’re not sure what to say during Passover, start here.
Say:
- “Chag Sameach!” (Hebrew for “Happy Holiday”)
- “Happy Passover to you and your family!”
Example:
Friend: “We’re getting ready for the Seder tonight.”
You: “Happy Passover! I hope it’s meaningful and joyful.”
💡 This shows you care and respect the holiday, even if you don’t celebrate it yourself.
2. Ask, “How Do You Celebrate Passover?”
This question shows curiosity, kindness, and respect. Everyone celebrates differently, and asking allows others to share their family traditions.
Example:
Coworker: “We’re taking Friday off for Passover.”
You: “Oh, that’s great. How do you usually celebrate Passover?”
👍 This opens up conversation without assuming anything.
3. Mention the Themes: Freedom, Hope, and Renewal
Passover celebrates the story of the Israelites gaining freedom. It’s a time to reflect on hope, strength, and starting fresh.
Say:
- “Wishing you freedom, peace, and renewal this Passover.”
- “It’s a powerful time to remember hope and freedom, isn’t it?”
🕊️ These words connect with the heart of the holiday.
4. During a Seder: Say “Dayenu” or Ask Questions
If you’re invited to a Passover Seder, join in by using common phrases.
Say:
- “Dayenu!” (A joyful word meaning “It would have been enough!”)
- “Why is this night different from all other nights?” (Part of the Four Questions)
Example:
Child: “We say ‘Dayenu’ a lot!”
You: “Yes! It means we’re thankful for every step of the journey.”
🎉 It’s okay to ask questions too—Seders are meant to teach and explore.
5. Be Respectful with Food and Timing
During Passover, many people avoid bread and other leavened foods. Also, they may take time off for family events and religious practices.
Say:
- “Are there any foods I should avoid bringing?”
- “Let me know if there’s a good time to meet after the holiday.”
Example:
Before a lunch invite: “I know it’s Passover—would a fruit tray work for you?”
🙏 This shows you’re thinking ahead and being thoughtful.
6. Avoid Saying “I Don’t Get It” or “It’s Just Like…”
Even if Passover is new to you, try not to compare it to other holidays or say it’s strange. Instead, listen and learn.
Don’t Say:
- “It’s like Jewish Easter, right?”
- “You can’t eat what? That’s weird!”
Do Say:
- “Thanks for sharing that—I love learning about other traditions.”
Final Thoughts
Knowing what to say during Passover helps you build bridges of kindness, understanding, and connection.
Whether you greet someone with “Chag Sameach,” ask about their traditions, or simply listen with care, your words can make others feel seen and respected. It’s not about saying everything perfectly—it’s about speaking from the heart. 💛
